Post 3: "loving me is like watering a dead flower" (posted Nov 21st 24')

 First of all this quote at a first glance seems very negative and pessimistic, suggesting that the speaker has no more feelings or have gave up om the idealism of love entirely, making them unsuseptible to love from others. Therefore the likening to watering a dead flower, a seemingly useless action. However, even dead flowers might have a chance to bloom once more with the proper care and conditions, to put it into simpler terms, you are always deserving of love. It is just a matter of who and what the other person is doing to you. You might feel like love is so out of reach and that it might never ever happen to you but you should always keep an open mind ♡. In life a lot of things are unconfirmed, we shouldn't just say things as if they are set in stone, like there are never going to change and who knows? That seemingly dying flower might still have a bit of life in it and that the right water might just revive it

Editor's Note: This was very overdue...... ANYWAYS! This quote has only gotten more impactful as I move on in my own life and my own relationship. As much as I feel like the dead flower in the quote, I have come to realise that everyone is deserving of love in their own different and unique ways! I may not be the perfect boyfriend or perfect brother but I know something, and that is love and understanding from myself will allow mw to grow and become better. Which makes me more worthy of love!

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